Don't get me wrong

It was pointed out to me a couple of days ago that all I really write about on here is guild stuff and lately it's all been very negative. That's true, I guess I do use this blog as an outlet. I really feel like I have no one in my real life that I can lay everything on. I know there are people, but I really don't want to fuss every time I get upset about something. I know it wears on them as much as it does on me, especially my husband. So I come here and rant and rave and get it all out of my system and move on. :-) Something I've been doing a lot better at lately. Use to things would get stuck in my mind and on my heart and bother me and bother me and bother me. Now I get it off my chest and I can go on with my day.

There are sometimes that things get me down more than they should, or at least, more than I should let them, but over all I'm doing much better.

Case in point. Last night one of my husbands friends really disappointed him, well not only him, but me as well. There were two raids he was signed up to go on this week and he was a no show for both of them. Both of them. Can we say...jerk? Honestly, I expect that from people I don't know that well, people in my guild or on the server that I run into but don't know personally. Yea, those are the kind of buttfaces I expect to do that crap. But not my friends.

So yea, that was great fun last night.

And then...oh wait...it gets better!

And then I had a raid member...in the raid...in the middle of the zone...just leave. Just leave. We thought he was DCed but Kroff talked to his wife and she said no, he wasn't feeling good.

Time out.

I understand if things come up. I understand if you're puking your guts out and you don't feel like playing. I understand if a kid is hollaring "Dad I need you!" I even understand if you're so pissed off at someone you need to walk away before you start yelling profanities over vent. Dude, it's cool. But please for the love of all that is good in this world...TELL SOMEONE. Just say "hey, not feeling it, please replace me, I need to get off." That's all it takes. That's all. No big deal. I got it taken care of.

But do NOT just up and leave and not say anything. It's rude, it's disrespectful, and it really make me angry. And I expect better of you. I expect a lot better of you than that.

And then there's another kicker...dude that fussed at me the other day struck again last night! Started fussing about my second raid leader swapping out her priest for her druid. Both healers and both performing the same function in the raid. But he was pissed about it. Told her she couldn't roll on loot and she had no business being in Naxx. Umm...nooooo. I told her, last time I checked you're the raid leader. So she told him we'd sit down and talk after that raid.

He immediately logged.

How mature right? So here's yet ANOTHER guy showing his butt in front of the guild and my leaders. No respect, no nothing. Just being a prick because he feels like it.

Or maybe it's me. I mean is it me? Am I really that awful of a guild leader that I attact all the pricks in the guild? Do all of these jerks just migrate toward me? Do I have a sticker on my head that says "PLEASE COME TO SACRED PACK IF YOU ARE RUDE, IMMATURE, AND DON'T GIVE A FLYING FLIP ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE'S FEELINGS."

Hellfire, I know at least three people who should be in my guild then. HA! (Come on, I know you laughed a little :-P)

I don't know. It's just frustrating. I just want to go home, log on WOW and be welomed by what I consider my second family. I don't want to log on and get grief and rude jerks hounding me and my officers. It's a game people. We play it for fun. But you will be respectful if you're going to run with this Pack. End of story.